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KittenKisses - 24 Ponsonby, Auckland
  • Petite
  • Long Hair
  • Tattooed
  • Adventurous
  • Playful
  • Open-Minded

Feeling naughty and looking for some fun online chat and maybe more. Love to tease and be teased. Not looking for anything serious, just good times with fun people. Send me a message if you want to know more about my wild side...

  • Roleplay
  • Dressing up
  • Open Minded
  • Online fun
  • Naughty Chat
  • Friends with Benefits
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WildFlower89 - 33 Hamilton, Waikato
  • Curvy
  • Voluptuous
  • Confident
  • Dominant
  • Passionate

Hi there! Looking for submissive playmates for online fun and possibly more. Experienced in BDSM and always eager to explore new fantasies. Let's start with some hot chat and see where it leads...

  • BDSM
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SweetNSpicy - 28 Wellington City, Wellington
  • Athletic Build
  • Toned
  • Curious
  • Energetic
  • Fun-Loving

Message me to find out more 😉

  • Groups
  • Swinging
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  • Open to anything
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NaughtyLibrarian - 35 Christchurch, Canterbury
  • Average Build
  • Glasses
  • Discreet
  • Submissive
  • Kinky

Quiet in the streets, wild in the sheets. Professional by day, naughty by night. Looking for discrete online fun and photo sharing. Love to explore my submissive side with the right person. No drama please.

  • Spanking
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  • Online fun
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CurvyKitten - 26 Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
  • BBW
  • Full-Figured
  • Confident
  • Playful

Curvy girl looking for fun and flirty chat. Love showing off my assets to the right person. Into both men and women. Let's start with some sexy chat and see what develops.

  • Open Minded
  • Exploration
  • Flirting
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  • NSA
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SexySecret - 31 Dunedin, Otago
  • Slim
  • Pierced
  • Adventurous
  • Open-Minded

Married but looking for discrete online fun. Love to share pics and get naughty on cam. Please be discrete and respectful. No single guys.

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  • Online fun
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PartyGirl - 22 New Plymouth, Taranaki
  • Petite
  • Sexy
  • Fun-Loving
  • Energetic

Young and ready to have some fun! Love to party and meet new people. Looking for online fun that might lead to more. Send me a message if you want to know what I'm into.

  • Clubs and Bars
  • Open Minded
  • Hookups
  • One Night Stands
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MidnightMystress - 29 Napier, Hawke's Bay
  • Hourglass
  • Tattooed
  • Dominant
  • Passionate

Experienced domme looking for online subs to train and tease. Know what I want and not afraid to take it. Must be willing to follow instructions. No timewasters.

  • BDSM
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  • Online fun
  • Naughty Chat
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WildChild90 - 33 Queenstown, Otago
  • Slim
  • Pierced
  • Adventurous
  • Energetic
  • Open-Minded

Adrenaline junkie seeking similar couples for wild adventures both in and out of the bedroom. Love skiing, hiking and getting naughty in nature. Let's create some memories!

  • Exploration
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  • Open to anything
  • Couples
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SexySecretaryNZ - 38 Wellington Central, Wellington
  • Hourglass
  • Sexy
  • Discreet
  • Professional

Professional by day, playful by night. Looking for discrete fun with select couples. Love dressing up and living out fantasies. Can host occasionally.

  • Roleplay
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  • Third
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PartyGirlXO - 25 Hamilton East, Waikato
  • Toned
  • Short Hair
  • Playful
  • Energetic

Young and ready to party! Love clubbing and meeting new people. Looking for fun couples to join for drinks and whatever comes next... No drama please!

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  • One Night Stands
  • Casual Dating
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DomGoddess - 36 New Lynn, Auckland
  • Tall
  • Athletic Build
  • Dominant
  • Confident

Experienced Domme seeking couples interested in power exchange and kink exploration. Happy to teach newcomers. Strict but fair. No timewasters.

  • BDSM
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KinkyKiwiGirl - 28 Ponsonby, Auckland
  • Curvy
  • Tattooed
  • Pierced
  • Adventurous
  • Open-Minded
  • Playful

Fun-loving girl looking for some naughty adventures! I work hard during the week but love to play harder on weekends. Into the alternative scene and always up for trying new things. Let's chat and see where things go...

  • BDSM
  • Roleplay
  • Fetish play
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Casual Dating
  • Open to anything
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SweetNSpicy69 - 35 Mount Maunganui, Bay of Plenty
  • Athletic Build
  • Long Hair
  • Discreet
  • Confident
  • Passionate

Married but looking for some discrete fun on the side. Very experienced in the lifestyle and know what I want. If you're interested in some no-strings fun with a confident woman who knows how to please, drop me a line.

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CuriousCat - 23 Riccarton, Christchurch
  • Petite
  • Slim
  • Curious
  • Submissive
  • Shy

Hi! New to this and very curious to explore. Looking for someone patient who can show me the ropes (maybe literally!). A bit shy at first but I warm up quickly with the right person.

  • BDSM
  • Exploration
  • Chat
  • Online fun
  • Will try anything once
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WildOne_NZ - 31 Newmarket, Wellington
  • Hourglass
  • Sexy
  • Dominant
  • Confident
  • kinky

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  • One Night Stands
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PlayfulPrincess - 26 Hamilton East, Waikato
  • Fit
  • Toned
  • Fun-Loving
  • Energetic
  • Open-Minded

Gym bunny by day, party animal by night! Looking for fun people to explore with and create some memorable experiences. Love to dance, drink, and get up to mischief. No drama please - just good times!

  • Clubs and Bars
  • Groups
  • Open Minded
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Casual Dating
  • Try me
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NaughtyNurse - 29 Takapuna, Auckland
  • Voluptuous
  • Full-Figured
  • Caring
  • Playful
  • Nurturing

Healthcare professional looking for some stress relief after those long shifts. Love to take care of others, but also know how to be very, very bad. Let me nurse you back to health... or maybe make you feel a little sick!

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SwingingSiren - 33 Papamoa, Bay of Plenty
  • Average Build
  • Medium Height
  • Experienced
  • Open-Minded
  • Adventurous

Experienced swinger looking to meet like-minded couples and singles. My partner and I love to host and have a fully equipped playroom. Newbies welcome - we're happy to show you the ropes. Must be clean, respectful and drama-free.

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  • Open Relationship
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Minx4Fun - 25 CBD, Wellington
  • Petite
  • Short Hair
  • Quirky
  • Creative
  • Expressive

Art student with a wild side looking for inspiration and excitement. Love photography, life drawing, and pushing boundaries. Want to be my muse? Or maybe we can create something beautiful together...

  • Dressing up
  • Exploration
  • Open Minded
  • Casual Dating
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Anything goes
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KinkyKiwiGirl - 28 Ponsonby, Auckland
  • Curvy
  • Tattooed
  • Adventurous
  • Open-Minded
  • Playful

Looking for some naughty fun in the city! I'm a free spirit who loves to explore and push boundaries. Life's too short for vanilla - let's spice things up together. Very experienced in the lifestyle and know what I want. No time wasters please!

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  • Groups
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  • Friends with Benefits
  • Couples
  • Open to anything
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SweetNSpicy42 - 35 Hamilton, Waikato
  • Petite
  • Long Hair
  • Discreet
  • Submissive

Hi there! Message me to find out more x

  • Spanking
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  • Discreet Meets
  • NSA
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WildFlower69 - 31 Christchurch, Canterbury
  • Athletic Build
  • Fit
  • Confident
  • Passionate
  • kinky

Experienced swinger looking for fun couples or select singles. Love to party and explore new experiences. Very open-minded and always up for adventure. Let's chat and see where things go!

  • Swinging
  • MFM
  • Groups
  • Third
  • Couples
  • Will try anything once
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CuriousCat_NZ - 25 Wellington, Wellington
  • Slim
  • Pierced
  • Curious
  • Fun-Loving

New to the scene and excited to explore! Looking for experienced people to show me the ropes (literally and figuratively). Love to flirt and chat online first to see if we click.

  • BDSM
  • Exploration
  • Online fun
  • Chat
  • Friends First
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NaughtyNurse_xo - 39 Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
  • Hourglass
  • Sexy
  • Dominant
  • Confident

Professional by day, playful by night. Looking for submissive playmates who know how to follow orders. I know exactly what I want and how to get it. Are you ready to serve?

  • BDSM
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  • NSA
  • Discreet Meets
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PartyGirl_021 - 23 New Plymouth, Taranaki
  • Petite
  • Short Hair
  • Energetic
  • Playful

Always up for a good time! Love hitting the clubs and seeing where the night takes me. Looking for fun people to party with and maybe more...

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  • One Night Stands
  • Casual Dating
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SexySecret88 - 34 Dunedin, Otago
  • Voluptuous
  • BBW
  • Discreet
  • Open-Minded

Married but looking for discrete fun on the side. Love to explore my wild side when hubby's away. Experienced in the lifestyle and know what I want. No strings, no drama.

  • MFM
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  • NSA
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FetishFairy - 29 North Shore, Auckland
  • Toned
  • Pierced
  • kinky
  • Adventurous

Experienced fetish enthusiast seeking like-minded playmates. Regular at local fetish events and always looking to expand my circle. Happy to show newbies the ropes or play with experienced kinksters.

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  • Roleplay
  • Friends with Benefits
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