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Welcome to the vibrant and exciting world of adult chat and secure messaging on Sex in NZ! Whether you're here to spice up your conversations or make personal connections, we’ve got you covered with a range of features designed to connect Kiwis with shared interests and desires.

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Sex chat and secure messaging

Our platform offers public and private group chats tailored to a variety of sexual interests, fetishes, and locations. From exploring your kinks in dedicated BDSM and fetish groups to joining casual chats about hookups and dating hotspots in Auckland, Wellington, or Queenstown, there’s a community for everyone. These groups are a fantastic way to meet like-minded adults, share tips, or dive into engaging and steamy conversations.

Private Messaging for Deeper Connections

Once you've broken the ice in group chats, take your conversations to the next level with our secure private messaging system. Whether you’re flirting, sharing fantasies, or arranging a face-to-face meeting, our encrypted platform ensures your privacy and safety. Feel free to express yourself openly, knowing your messages are protected.

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DomGoddess - 36 New Lynn, Auckland
  • Tall
  • Athletic Build
  • Dominant
  • Confident

Experienced Domme seeking couples interested in power exchange and kink exploration. Happy to teach newcomers. Strict but fair. No timewasters.

  • BDSM
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  • Spanking
  • Couples
  • Try me
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WildOne_NZ - 31 Newmarket, Wellington
  • Hourglass
  • Sexy
  • Dominant
  • Confident
  • kinky

Message me to find out more...

  • Spanking
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  • One Night Stands
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SwingingSiren - 33 Papamoa, Bay of Plenty
  • Average Build
  • Medium Height
  • Experienced
  • Open-Minded
  • Adventurous

Experienced swinger looking to meet like-minded couples and singles. My partner and I love to host and have a fully equipped playroom. Newbies welcome - we're happy to show you the ropes. Must be clean, respectful and drama-free.

  • Swinging
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  • Third
  • Open Relationship
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Minx4Fun - 25 CBD, Wellington
  • Petite
  • Short Hair
  • Quirky
  • Creative
  • Expressive

Art student with a wild side looking for inspiration and excitement. Love photography, life drawing, and pushing boundaries. Want to be my muse? Or maybe we can create something beautiful together...

  • Dressing up
  • Exploration
  • Open Minded
  • Casual Dating
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Anything goes
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KittenKisses - 24 Ponsonby, Auckland
  • Petite
  • Long Hair
  • Tattooed
  • Adventurous
  • Playful
  • Open-Minded

Naughty little minx looking for some discreet fun. Love to tease and please. Not into anything too serious - just want to explore and have a good time. Send me a message if you're up for some cheeky chat and maybe more...

  • Roleplay
  • Dressing up
  • Exploration
  • Casual Dating
  • Online fun
  • Naughty Chat
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WildRose69 - 35 Hamilton, Waikato
  • Curvy
  • Voluptuous
  • Dominant
  • Confident
  • Kinky

Experienced woman who knows what she wants. Looking for submissive playmates who enjoy being told what to do. I have a fully equipped playroom and lots of naughty ideas. Couples welcome. No timewasters please.

  • BDSM
  • Groups
  • Fetish play
  • NSA
  • Couples
  • Will try anything once
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ShyGirl4U - 19 Christchurch, Canterbury
  • Slim
  • Short Hair
  • Curious
  • Submissive

Hi! New to this and a bit nervous... Looking to explore my wild side with someone patient and experienced. Message me if you'd like to chat and see where things go x

  • Exploration
  • Chat
  • Online fun
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HotWifeLooking - 42 Wellington, Wellington
  • Hourglass
  • Sexy
  • Discreet
  • Open-Minded

Married but playing with permission. Looking for discrete meets and fun encounters. Love to share photos and get naughty on cam first. Hubby sometimes watches. No single guys please.

  • Swinging
  • MFM
  • Discreet Meets
  • Couples
  • Third
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NaughtyNurse - 29 Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
  • Athletic Build
  • Fit
  • Energetic
  • Fun-Loving

Healthcare professional looking for some stress relief after those long shifts. Love to roleplay and dress up in my uniform. Very oral and love to please. Can host discreetly.

  • Roleplay
  • Dressing up
  • NSA
  • One Night Stands
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CurvyKitten - 31 Dunedin, Otago
  • BBW
  • Full-Figured
  • Confident
  • Passionate

Big beautiful woman with lots of love to give. Looking for someone who appreciates my curves and knows how to handle them. Love to share pics and get naughty on cam. No time wasters.

  • Open Minded
  • Clubs and Bars
  • Friends with Benefits
  • Casual Dating
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BustyBabe - 26 North Shore, Auckland
  • Curvy
  • Pierced
  • Adventurous
  • Playful

Message me to find out more... I don't disappoint ;)

  • Fetish Clubs
  • Groups
  • Anything goes
  • Open to anything
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SexySecretary - 38 Napier, Hawke's Bay
  • Slim
  • Long Hair
  • Discreet
  • Professional

Professional by day, playful by night. Looking for discrete encounters and online fun. Love to dress up in office attire and roleplay naughty scenarios. Can't host but happy to meet.

  • Roleplay
  • Dressing up
  • Discreet Meets
  • Online fun

Explore Your Interests, Your Way

Our public and private groups cater to every taste. Are you into role-playing, swinging, or the art of seduction? Or perhaps you’d prefer a location-specific group to discuss the best bars and clubs for hookups in Christchurch or Dunedin? Whatever excites you, there’s a chat waiting for you to join. Plus, if you don’t see a group for your niche interest, you can even create your own and build your community!

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Joining the conversation is simple. Sign up for free, browse groups, and start chatting with Kiwis who share your passions. Whether you’re here for a steamy chat, a meaningful connection, or just to explore your fantasies, Sex in NZ is the ultimate destination. Dive in today, and let the conversations heat up!

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